In beginning, I asked everyone the same question: what is the most important thing to you?

MOst people responded family. Which to me was dumb. Or if you really thought about it, secondary. To health, your personal freedoms, etc. YOu put someone in pain, their priorities might change. In prison. I got so sick of hearing even about houses that I eventually stop asking the question.

What's so important?

I never received a good answer. EVer.